Married with Kids, Lack of Romance, Common Marriage Problem
Married with kids? Lost the romance
in your life? Have intimate moments and uninterrupted lovemaking become a thing of the past? Do you sometimes wonder if you
ever knew each other and do you just yearn for the odd candlelit dinner, special moment in front of a roaring fire or just an evening with your
feet up drinking wine? With the children around have you just forgotten what it’s like to have some good adult fun?
So often you hear stories of the great love life that once was and that has just become a distant memory after years of putting
the children first. If life is beginning to get you down and you are in desperate need of some light adult relief now is the time to make
an effort and get some personal and relationship time back into your life.
If you are faking sexual enjoyment or constantly saying no just because you have lost the time, energy and desire now is the time
to put your marriage first and resolve one of those common marriage problems that can develop into real relationship
My advice to couples that are struggling with the intimate side of their marriage is to rearrange the priorities in their life.
Make time to be together, no matter how much you love your children you need time without them, time to enjoy adult company and time to be
Your marriage needs to move up your list of priorities, don’t wait for spontaneity, it just isn’t going to happen, when can it
when the children are around? Break a habit of a life time and learn to plan time together, arrange for
someone else to look after the kids, plan for all your children to be visiting friends at the same time, have a reciprocal arrangement with
friends or neighbours which allows you both to have some relationship time. Look at summer camps and kids clubs and any other activities
that your children will enjoy leaving you free and relaxed to enjoy each others company.
Couples with children often become concerned about the loss of intimacy, the relaxed lovemaking and romantic evenings they enjoyed
earlier in their marriage. It's a common marriage problem but certainly not impossible to resolve. Don’t just assume that once the kids
have grown up you will be able to work on your marriage. I can tell you for sure it just won’t happen. Just look at the number of marriages
that end in divorce once the children left home and look at the number of loveless lonely marriages that exist just for the sake of the
Common Marriage Problems - Life with or without Kids
It is quite common for couples to get married because they have a baby on the way or because they want
kids and historically it was common practice to have children soon after marriage.
Common Marriage Problems - Communication
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Marriage Problems - Boredom is a killer
Couples often find that after the honeymoon period is behind them and they have settled in to married life it isn’t quite the constant bed of
roses that they imagined it to be.
Common Marriage Problems - Neglect
It is so easy to work your life away, forget about your family, your partner and your relationship.