Infidelity, Childs Play or so you Thought!
Common Marriage Problem
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Anyway back to marriages and affairs. The only advice I can give you if you
are committing adultery is that you have to make a choice, and you
have to choose now. It is totally unfair to both your spouse and the person you are having the affair with to continue as you are, you need
to choose .
Like many common marriage problemsthe choice is hard but you have to make
it with a clear head and an open mind. Just because you are going through a rough patch now doesn’t mean to say that with a little
effort you can't save your marriage and become stronger and ultimately be better than it was at the start. Before you destroy
what was and could still be a good thing be 100% certain that even with a lot of effort you can't save your marriage and that the
person you are committing the infidelity with and
destroying your marriage for is someone you want to stay with for the rest of your life.
If your partner is having the affair, or you suspect they are, it doesn’t mean that it is the end of your marriage. For one
your suspicions might be incorrect and for two if it’s true you are now in the driving seat. The future of your marriage is in your
hands. You need to decide whether or not you feel you can and want to save your marriage, is it worth saving and can you
forgive you partner for such a stupid mistake. We all make mistakes and some of us make more serious mistakes than others but
should infidelity necessarily ruin the rest of our lives?
You need to ask yourself:
Do you still love your partner?
Do you want to save your marriage?
And are you committed to trying to save it?
If you truly want to save your marriage then you will always wonder ‘what if?’ if you don’t make the effort now.
Just because your partner is having an affair it doesn’t mean to say that they don’t still love you and it doesn’t mean to say
that they don’t want to try to work with you to save your marriage.
Author: Terry Ross
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